In the days and months after experiencing a pregnancy loss, many parents are unsure of how to honor the memory of their child. In particular, you may want to memorialize your child on the baby’s estimated due date (EDD). Here are five ideas that may help navigate this difficult time:
1. Plant a tree or flowers
It can be comforting to watch something beautiful bloom out of a bad situation. Whether you go big or small, long-term or short-term, perhaps try to pick a tree or flower that has meaning to you in some way. You may want to also lay down stones or another item where you can mark your EDD.
2. Purchase a special piece of jewelry
Some parents prefer something tangible they can keep with them as a reminder. A piece of jewelry that features the child’s birthstone, name, and/or EDD can carry a lot of sentimental value.
3. Get a memorial tattoo
4. Create a memory box
When suffering a miscarriage or other type of pregnancy loss, there is often no opportunity to say goodbye to your child. By creating a memory box, you will have the chance to build a memorial to your child.
5. Make a donation to Through the Heart
While there is nothing that can bring your child back, making a donation on behalf of your child means his or her impact is felt for years to come. It may help to know that your child was instrumental in providing support for others suffering a pregnancy loss and helping to bring increased awareness to the issue. At the time of your donation, you will have the option of leaving a dedication in memory of your child that will be shared in our monthly donor email.
Of course, there is no right or wrong way to memorialize, and it’s important to do whatever feels right for YOU. Mourning and remembering is a very individual process and each couple must do what feels right in their hearts.